Wednesday, February 17, 2010

Sun Princess Cruise to New Zealand

Peter & Ret departing Sydney (Opera House in background)
Tony, Murray & Yudian - departing Sydney Harbour

Aunty Dympna, Dorothy & Trish departing under Sydney Harbour Bridge

Milford Sound from the Pool Deck

Family Group Christchurch Botanic Gardens
(L-R Murray Trish Dympna (Aunt) Ret (Sister) Peter Dorothy Yudian Tony (Brother)


Murray at Blackjack table in onboard casino

Returning with tug support under Sydney Harbour Bridge

Benn dropped us off at the Wharf in Sydney where we met up with 6 other family members to join our cruise ship. My Aunt was accompanied by her friend Dorothy - they have been friends for 73 years since their school days. Now that is what you call enduring friendship - sadly both are now widowed.
The Sun Princess departed Sydney at 4pm on Friday 5th Feb under grey skies. We stood on the back deck as we sailed under the Sydney Harbour Bridge and past the majestic Opera House as we headed out to the Tasman Sea. I prayed for calm seas but my prayers weren’t heard – thank goodness for an early tablet of Travalcalm – I think it saved our bacon as we heard of many others who weren’t so lucky. Fortunately the seas settled after the first day. There were 2000 passengers, the majority of which were Australian.

As usual, New Zealand did not disappoint us. We had previously enjoyed a fly/drive around the south island with American friends Jan & Dick a few years ago, and I had attended a work conference in Auckland as well, but this has been our first cruise to NZ. For the first few days the weather was fine but cool, which was a pleasant change from our hot summer days in Ballina. By the time we reached the delightful seaside city of Napier, the weather had become quite hot, but a sea breeze kept us comfortable. I caught the first sunrise of the trip at 5.35am on the 6th day of the cruise – my sister & I basked in a hot tub on the top deck while admiring the growing orange glow on the horizon. Beautiful. At day’s end, around 9pm, the setting sun put on a different but equally colourful display in the western sky as it hovered just above the turquoise waters. It’s a pity our cameras cannot capture the quintessential beauty of our Creator’s colours.

The first three and last two days of the cruise were spent totally at sea. For the 8 days in between we docked at seven different NZ ports where we got off the ship and did some local sightseeing. At Fjordland National Park our ship cruised through Milford Sound which is just one part of this NP and is one of nature’s wonderlands. At its widest point it is 1.5 miles wide, and the majestic cliffs alongside reach 5560 ft high. The ship entered into the Sound to give all onboard a birds-eye view of the cascading waterfalls and scenic mountain surrounds (some with snow), before returning to the Tasman Sea. Dunedin & Napier were pretty ports and we caught a bus in to look around. In Christchurch we hired a small bus and the driver drove us around. We stopped to wander through the Botanic Gardens - the hybrid 'Tiffany' pink rose delighted us all with sight and scent. At Wellington we took the cable car up to see the view and were relieved to see our ship still in port and not drifting out to sea without us. In Auckland we walked into the city where we attended Mass and spent a few hours wandering around. Our last port was the Bay of Islands where all of us took a tour of a glow worm cave and later walked in the protected 'Kauri Forest'. Although the oldest tree in the grove we visited was 500 years old, it was nowhere near as impressive as the towering and beautiful Redwoods (Sequoia) trees in Northern California (North of San Francisco about 100 miles south of the Oregon border), one of which was 950 years old.

During our previous 2 cruises (one each to Alaska & the Caribbean) we agreed we would just enjoy the decadence for the duration of the cruise – eat, play and enjoy the ride while being waited on hand and foot. Well, that was okay as those cruises were only a max of 7 days. This latest cruise on the other hand was 13 days and had the added element of sharing bottles of wine at each dinner meal. Luckily my family and their spouses share our philosophy to enjoy the ‘now’. Each evening we perused the dinner menu and revelled in the chefs concoction of recipes. While there are about 8 main course menu items that were constant, the other six changed each day. My brother has eaten in renowned restaurants all around the world, yet was overly impressed with the culinary delights we tasted during the cruise. Yes Jan, I am still talking about food! One of life's pleasures for me as you already know.

After 13 days cruising the high seas it was time to fly home. Amazingly all eight family members are still talking to each other despite being in close quarters for almost 2 weeks and agree that it was a wonderful cruise. Now Murray & I are safely back in Ballina and have resumed preparations for moving into our new home next Tuesday. My son Benn has kindly offered to fly in and help out for a few days which will be greatly appreciated.

Thursday, February 4, 2010

Family & Friends

Hostess Audrey Putts out
Happy 86th Birthday Aunty Dympna

Trish, Mark, Helen holding grandaughter, Murray & Michelle

L-R Benn, Daina, Sam, Peter, Peter, Ret, Dympna, Tony, Yudian & Murray

Sun Princess - our home for the next 13 days

It is February already - the year is really zinging along for us and I daresay for you as well. We have had several family get togethers and some delightful catch ups with old friends. First of all we celebrated Australia Day (26 Jan) with the annual Watson golf tournament at our friends Audrey & Grant Watson's place -they have landscaped their sloping front yard and built one grass green and 4 tee-offs. Quite a challenging course but with a fantastic view.

On 30 January we celebrated our Aunt's 86th birthday with a family lunch at Lennox Heads. It is one of life's pleasures for me to dine while looking over water, and this was no exception. The ocean was beautiful.

Friends of our from our Point Cook Air Force days, Helen & Mark, were in the area visiting their daughter Michelle who we hadn't seen for about 18 years. Benn & Kim used to play with her when they were all around 10-12 years old. She now has a son and daughter of her own and it was lovely to catch up with them all. The Ballina RSL Club catered for our lunch well, with the added advantage of the lovely view over the Richmond River. That same day we also had a family dinner there to welcome friends Bev & Keith from Alice Springs. Bev & my sister Gemma went to school together and have been good friends for over 50 years. They are visiting Ballina for a while, and in fact they are houseminding our B&B while we are on the cruise.
Cruise you say, what cruise? My aunt, her school friend Dorothy, my brother Tony his wife Yudian, my sister Loretta (Ret) and her husband Peter, plus Murray & I are heading off today for a 13 day cruise from Sydney to New Zealand and return. We stop at 6 ports and cruise the Bay of Islands up north as well as the Fjordlands down south. Last night my son Benn, his girlfriend Daina and Ret's son Peter and his fiancee Sam met together with all the cruising party for dinner. We had a sumptuous feast at a Chinese restaurant in the heart of Sydney. A great prelude to our coming adventure on the high seas...well, let the seas be high, but please let them be calm......fortunately our cabin has a balcony so we can get fresh air. Watch out for photos from the cruise on the next blog.

Tuesday, January 19, 2010

First Grandchild

Three Generations (Adrian, Blayke, Murray)


Proud New Grandparents

Yes, three weeks since my last entry, but believe me we have been well and truly occupied. This is my first entry for the New Year and what exciting news to kick start the New Year. A new grandchild! The first grandchild for us. Murray's son Adrian and his wife Danielle welcomed a bonny Blayke Mitchell into the world. He weighed in at 8lb 5 oz and slept blissfully whilst we were visiting. We originally booked our flights 2 weeks after the expected delivery date, thinking it would allow the new family time to settle the little one in. Little did we know young Blayke wanted a bit more time to cook, and he didn't arrive until the day we flew into Melbourne.

Our Melbourne visit gave us a chance to not only meet the new grandson, but to catch up with Murray's kids and sister-in-law, and also visit with other friends. We stayed a few nights with friends Joe-Ann & Ross and enjoyed our time together.

Other good news to start our year off on a positive note was to complete the settlement of our Robina house on time on 15th January. Now we can concentrate on purchasing furniture for the new house! Selecting a lounge suite, ceiling fans, airconditioners, washing machine, dishwasher, outdoor setting, fridge, microwave, bed, bedhead, TV etc all takes time!

Sadly our plans to RV around Alaska with friends Marie & Eric (Sacramento) this year have fallen through as one of the highlights of the trip was to see the brown bears catch the salmon jumping out of the water. This tour was already booked out for this year, so we have now paid our deposit and secured a spot for next year. Instead of touring Alaska, we are now looking at alternative options (always one of the most pleasant tasks of any given day!) which is likely to include a flight from the USA to Denmark to visit my daughter Kim in Copenhagen. We will probably stay there for about 10 days, get a hire car and travel around Denmark, Sweden and environs. I know, I know - life is tough...

Wednesday, December 30, 2009

End of a Decade: Farewell the Noughty (sic) Nineties...

Kitchen in new Ballina House
Rear View of new Ballina House

Christmas Day Spread
Christmas Kitchen Elves
Christmas Day drinks with my 92 year old mother and brother Tony

Today is not just the last day of the year 2009 but it is also the last day of the decade! A time to look back and give thanks for all the wonderful things to be grateful for. For family, friends, good health & life's wonderful adventures.

The last year or so of the decade caused some anxiety with the global financial crisis. We took a hit and fortunately weathered the storm; however we have refined our modus operandi just the same. It has been the last few weeks of this decade that have been very interesting for us to say the least. We have bought a house here in Ballina and have a contract to sell our house in Robina. Murray and I both had an unplanned surgical operation in the week prior to Christmas - his was removal of a kidney stone and mine was removal of an ovarian tumour and ovary. We were both a bit uncomfortable at the family Christmas lunch, but we are firing on all fours again now.

Now we have the New Year unfurling full of promise ahead of us. We will kick start the first day of 2010 tomorrow with a family lunch on the Gold Coast followed by afternoon tea with parents of my friends Jen & Leonie. I did all of my general nurse & midwifery training (4 years) with Jen so have known her parents since 1970.

In mid-January we fly to Melbourne to catch up with Murray's 3 kids and friends from our Air Force days. In early February we are taking a 13 day cruise from Sydney to New Zealand with 3 other family couples (brother & sister and their spouses, and our aunt and her school friend).

Four days after our return from the cruise we move into the Ballina house. I am calling it our Ballina Retreat as it will be just that. It will be great to have a place to really call 'home' for the first time since I joined the Air Force 22 years ago. We lived in military housing for 20 years. Since leaving the Service 3 years ago, we have spent 6 months a year living in our motorhome in America and 6 months in Australia living in temporary accommodation with our goods being held in storage.

We will still be in settling-in into our Ballina retreat when it will be time to fly back to USA for another 6 month adventure in our motorhome. We are aiming for a mid-May departure this year to enable us to attend our nephew's wedding in Sydney before flying off to Los Angeles and onto Kansas City where our RV is stored.

After our skirmishes with health issues recently, my wish for the new year is good health, along with the usual wish for a heavy sprinkling of happiness. I extend that wish to you all too.
Happy New Year!

Sunday, November 29, 2009

Last Day of Spring

Pink Jellyfish
Spring Flowers

Drive back to Ballina today

Ballina Scenery
It was so hot this morning while I was on my 6.30am walk yet the first day of summer isn't until tomorrow! Despite that, we heard on the news today that the Snowy Mtns in NSW actually had snow falls today. Unbelievable. What is happening to the weather??
The spring flowers are fading fast, but are still looking beautiful. It was an hour before high tide so the river was alive with bait fish and I even saw this unusual pink jellyfish swimming towards the ocean. I was able to quickly take a photo of it before it disappeared from sight. I have searched the internet and haven't found a name for it yet, but I can only expect it has a nasty sting. It would have been about 10" in length and about 6" wide. Yesterday we were having morning tea with friends up visiting from Canberra, and we saw four different pods of dolphins cavorting in the ocean in front of us - delightful.
In the middle of my walk this morning I dropped in for a cup of coffee with my Aunt and then we both called in on her friend to check out her latest oil painting handiwork. I then walked home and shortly afterwards my eldest sister rang me to say that her and her husband were taking a trip up to the Gold Coast to visit our mother, asked if I would like to join them. They were leaving in 1.5 hrs, so plenty of time for me to be ready and waiting. We had a lovely drive up and back, visited with mum and had a very pleasant lunch overlooking the broadwater with yet another sister. Our youngest sister had to work in Brisbane and missed out on the opportunity. So farewell Spring, tomorrow is the first day of summer!

Sunday, November 15, 2009

Ballina Decision

My new great-niece Erin Valerie Anzin
Catching up with friend Caren and her mother Shirl

Our Gold Coast home for sale...

Hard to believe it is already one month since my last entry. So much has happened, not least of which was a scare my younger sister gave us all recently. She went in for day surgery and as she was coming out of the anaesthetic she had all the signs of a heart attack. Her pulse dropped below 30, she had ectopic ventricular beats and they had trouble getting her blood pressure above 60/45 so kept her in intensive care for 4 days. Her cardiologist and anaesthetist remain baffled. They have searched the internet and talked to their colleagues but no one has experienced anything like what occurred. Thankfully she seems fine now, and her angiogram shows a healthy heart. Hmmm...
Just before the drama with my sister, we had come to the conclusion to finally buy our own place here in Ballina. Our stay here last year was to get a feel for the place and see if it was where we wanted to have our base home during the years of our retirement. We really enjoy the location and the lifestyle, and the people are very friendly - including my sister, brother-in-law and aunt who live here! Now our task is to sell our house on the Gold Coast to have the funds to purchase the new abode. Meanwhile, we are soaking up the local real estate scene, attending open houses, arranging inspections and observing house auctions. Our house goes on the market in late December after the tenants vacate and we get the outside painted. We hope Jan/Feb sees some good offers come in.
Once we made the decision to settle here, I decided it was time for me to join the Ballina community. I enrolled at U3A (University of the 3rd Age - the first being childhood, the second raising a family and having a career, and the 3rd being after the kids have left home and you have finished full time work). You pay an annual fee ($30) and during each school term they hold free classes for a range of activities and learning including but not limited to yoga, table tennis, computer studies, spanish, french, mahjong, cryptic crosswords, art appreciation, book writing, etc etc. I signed up for yoga and table tennis and put my name down as a volunteer for 3 sessions of wrapping Christmas parcels for shoppers in the mall in the week leading up to Christmas. They pay a donation which goes towards U3A funding. Murray already has his fishing plus he helps out at the food kitchen once a week. He has made enquiries about cricket umpiring and he attends his first meeting with them in a few weeks. Meanwhile, the local cricket team was short a player and roped him in to play with them last Saturday. The next day he paid for his field activities and was quite sore all over. He wonders if he really needed to dive for the ball like he did!

As we have been very busy since our return, I try and gain a little balance by attending a weekly meditation session run by my aunt. I walk down to the school on Saturday morning (where the session is held), and 40 mins later walk back home refreshed. One aspect of Ballina that I really like (apart from the beautiful river and the sea) is being able to walk to most of my popular places.

I have just got back from my morning walk with my aunt. She walks down to meet me at 6.30am Mon, Wed and Fri and then I walk her back and return home. All up it is a 45 min walk. The sun was already high in the sky at 6.30am and it was 20 C (68F) going for a high of 32C (90F). I rang my girlfriend Sue in Alice Springs (central Australia) yesterday and she had been working outside in 40 C (104F) and wondered why she was feeling hot! Sort of creeps up on you.

On Sunday Murray & I went to see the movie 'Mao's Last Dancer'. A true story of a Chinese peasant who became a world famous male ballerina. He now lives in Melbourne, Australia with his Australian ex-ballerina wife. Yesterday I was chatting with another girlfriend who lives near Bundaberg, Queensland and I was telling her I had seen the movie. It turns out her sister used to dance with Mary, the Australian wife of the Chinese dancer. Not only that, but my friend's mother used to sew Mary's dancing costumes in the early days when she was still at school! What a small world!

Last week a girlfriend of mine bought her mother to stay in the motel across the road from us. It was nice to just be able to walk across the road and spend time with them. The four of us went to the local RSL for lunch which was very pleasant too. The motel gets a lot of business from our family & friends dropping in to say hello, so the owner gives our visitors a 10% discount. Plus she make me a fresh cappuccino when I drop in, and we have a natter a couple of times a week. On Sunday she wandered down the road with me to check out 2 houses that had an open inspection. One was priced at $900,000 and the other $720,000. A bit out of my price range!
My niece Rosie in Darwin (who I stayed with on my recent trip) had her third daughter on 30th November. Her & Mark named the latest arrival Erin Valerie. She is a cutie as you can see from her photo above.

My kids have been doing interesting things. My eldest son celebrated his recent birthday in Vietnam with his girlfriend, and my daughter moved from Canada to start work at the University of Copenhagen. My youngest son is in Darwin and caught up with my sister who is up there visiting, and is preparing to head south on 19 Dec to join his grandfather, aunt and cousins for Christmas. Sheesh, my kids lead a very grand life compared to mine at the same age!

Monday, October 19, 2009

Goodbye Darwin, Hello Ballina

Darwin City from Fannie Bay
Darwin Wave Pool
L-R Back Row: Lincoln, Shae, Gemma, Lisa, Georgie
L-R Front Row: Bailey, Bridgette, Mark & I
Kate, Nick holding Rebecca, Anna, Me, Mark

Ballina Shelley Beach
My 10 days in Darwin went so fast, but it was wonderful to catch up with the family and familiarise myself with how the city is growing. I enjoyed my time weighing & packing beef jerky with my niece and nephew who have a family business in Darwin, as it gave me the opportunity to hear about their comings and goings.

My son Mark & I joined in two family dinners - the first one was held at my niece Rosie & Mark's home where I was living. In the photo you will also see Rosie's daughters Georgia & Bailey plus my other niece Bridgette (Rosie's sister), her other half Rob, their young son Lincoln and Bridgette's two daughters Gemma and Shae. Gemma also bought along her friend Lisa. As everyone had worked that day (except me) I made a spaghetti bolognaise to have with a tossed green rocket salad and garlic bread. What I pity I forgot to take the salad out of the fridge and didn't find it until everyone had gone home. Blame it on the tropics...

The second dinner was at my nephew Nick and his wife Karen's home. Their delightful daughter Rebecca and my 2 nieces Kate & Anna, Nick's sisters joined in the BBQ. Nick sells very good quality meat that he gets trucked up from down south, so the porterhouse steaks we had for dinner were top notch.

Finally it was time to say goodbye and leave Rosie knowing she only has 2 weeks before her baby is due. She will be glad to be able to walk instead of waddle! After my 3.5 hr flight from Darwin to Brisbane, Murray met me at the airport and we drove the 2 hrs south to Ballina. He had the B&B set up very comfortably and had even bought us a new full fridge as the B&B only had a small bar fridge which we found out very quickly last time that it was not big enough for us PLUS Murray's bait PLUS his fish catch! The next day we went for a drive around and then had a walk along the sea wall. I took a photo for you all so that you can have an idea of our environment.

Saturday, October 10, 2009

Morning Walk, Darwin, Northern Territory

My Morning Walk Route
Encouraging Exercise
Beachside Fitness Station
Danger Sign for Box Jellyfish (click on photo to magnify and read the blurb)

Back to the city of my birth in the Top End of Australia. Darwin sure has grown into a sprawling tropical destination, and is home to my youngest son Mark (25 years old), 1 nephew, 4 nieces, 6 great-nieces and 1 great-nephew. I am staying in a very comfortable self-contained unit underneath one of my niece's house.
This morning I walked out her front gate, crossed the road and in less than a minute I was on a great exercise path that goes right along the Nightcliff beachfront. I was impressed with the efforts to encourage exercise - they had these neat little fitness stations complete with instructions on how to use the equipment. There were certainly a lot of people out taking advantage of the walking/cycling path and the beach itself. You have to be careful swimming in the sea between October and May here and in Queensland, as dangerous jellyfish deliver a nasty and sometimes fatal sting. Such is life in the tropics...when the humidity is the worst and the sea looks so inviting, the safest place to cool off is in your own swimming pool!

Saturday, October 3, 2009

Home, Sweet Home

South Bank Brisbane
My son Benn at Coogee for lunch

School friends Liz & Sue with me in Alice Springs

Sun setting on a 'White Gum' tree

'White Gums' homestead

As I am typing this, I am immersed in the countryside of my youth - the red centre of Australia. The red dirt, the white trunked green/blue gum trees and the blue sky are colours so familiar they almost hurt. I am here in Alice Springs to attend the 80th birthday of the mum of my 'oldest' girlfriend - we met 46 years ago. Her parents had the only dairy farm in the area during the 'ten year drought' of 1956-1966 (I arrived in Alice in 1961 and left at the end of 1968) and my favourite times were the weekends spent on their dairy farm. Ah, memories - I was on the property yesterday and walked away from the throngs of family and special guests to just look around me and take in the 'aura'. A truly magical place of remembrance for me. Check out just one of the White Gum trees that they named their property after! Whilst here in Alice I stayed with another of my school friends, and also caught up with another two. It has been fun reminiscing about our life back then.
But I digress...after our usual 13 hour flight from Australia to Brisbane, my sister Loretta met us at the airport and whisked us through the early commute traffic to a hotel on the south of Brisbane. We then met up with my other sister Rose, brother Tracy and his son Greg and had champagne with lunch. How decadent. We knew to overcome jet lag we should stay up until night time, so although Murray succumbed and had a mini-sleep, Loretta and I took a lovely walk along the river on the south end of Brisbane city where they have created an artificial beach. Beautiful. The next day we put Murray on a plane to Melbourne and he caught up with his three kids and attended the football grand final. Sadly his team lost on the day.

My 93 year old mother was in fine form and happy to have me back home safely. Then it was time for lunch with 3 of my sisters and another brother and their spouses. So within 30 hours of arrival I had caught up with all of my family (except my Aunt in Ballina who I will see very soon).
Within 4 days I flew to Sydney and spent a fabulous day & evening with my son Benn, and my nephew Pete and his fiancee Sam who joined us for dinner. After I leave Alice Springs I will fly to Darwin (tomorrow in fact) and spend a week with my youngest son Mark. From Darwin I will join Murray in Ballina where we will stay in our B&B by the river for the next 6 months before returning to the USA and our 2 month RV trip to Alaska commencing 1 June.

Wednesday, September 23, 2009

Last Days in USA 2009

Turkish Coffee a La Badr
Vitamin Burst

Sunset LAX

Our last port of call before arriving back in Kansas City and putting the RV in mothballs for another 6 months was with some aussies in Omaha Nebraska. Wal and his wife Desleigh invited us to their home for dinner. We met their daughter Cartia and her Saudi Arabian friend, Badr. Another aussie colleague who had worked with Murray in the Embassy in DC was also there with her two daughters. After a delicious meal prepared by our hosts, Badr then treated us all to his native Turkish coffee served in special coffee cups from his own coffee pot and accompanied by plump, sticky dates from the King's crop. It was a most enjoyable evening and we were surprised to note it was midnight when we got back to our RV - the time just flew by - probably helped by a few champagnes with hibiscus flower floats!

Shortly after getting home I checked my phone and noticed I had missed a call from Qantas. They had rung to advise that our flight back to Australia on Thursday had been cancelled and we had to make alternative arrangements. We decided to go back the day before to enable us to meet previously made commitments.
As swine flu as already been rife in Australia and is now hitting the USA, we started taking some extra vitamins a week before our flight, hoping to build up our resistance to any bugs that may be lurking around the aircraft on our 14 hr flight home. It is only 2 hrs until we board our flight, so we will take one more walk around the terminal to get the red blood cells circulating before we settle onto our magic carpet ride home.